The Kingdom of Heaven is
like a mustard seed planted in a field. It
is the smallest of all seeds, but it becomes the largest of garden plants; it
grows into a tree, and birds come and make nests in its branches~ Matthew
13:31-32
Like most women of my generation, I was immersed
from birth in the message that I could do anything I wanted to do and become
anyone I wanted to become. Some of my earliest recollections involve my parents
reminding me, in almost reverent tones, that if I studied hard and did well in
school I could grow up to be a doctor or a scientist or the first female
President of the United States.
To
be perfectly real with you, I was far more interested in acquiring a Barbie
Dream House and becoming a princess. The notion of transforming the political
and social landscape of America never entered my head.
Girls were not the only ones in the
seventies and eighties encouraged to dream big about life; boys and girls alike
were encouraged to think big about their futures. We were frequently reminded
by parents and teachers that we would change the world if we were willing to
work hard and dream big for our futures.
The “think big, dream big” message was not
limited to schoolchildren. Fondness for
big thinking made its way into the church world around the same time. With the
birth of the first megachurch in the 1970s and the success of evangelists like
Billy Graham and Rick Warren, every church was advised to grow big and every
Christian exhorted to dream big about what God wanted to do with their life.
When I trained for ministry, big thinking
dominated the instruction I received. I was encouraged in subtle and not-so-subtle
ways to nurture every ministry I was involved in into something bigger. Bigger was,
by definition, always better than anything small. I bought into the “bigger is
better” way of looking at ministry, until recently when my perspective was
challenged in a big way. No pun intended. Well, okay—maybe a little bit of a
pun was intended.
I just finished The Grasshopper Myth: Big Churches, Small Churches and The Small
Thinking that Divides Us by Karl Vaters. To be perfectly honest with you I
didn’t really choose to read it. I read it because my senior Pastor bought it
for me and e-mailed it to my Kindle. Because he did everything but come over to
my house and read it to me I felt obligated to give it a shot. It turned out to
be one of the best things I’ve ever felt duty-bound to read.
The
writer does not criticize or condemn big churches. He is clear that big
churches have their place and meet many legitimate needs within the body of
Christ. That said, Vaters does a fantastic job of challenging the notion that
bigger is always better. He argues persuasively that the never-ending quest for
“butts in seats” and “bucks in the offering” in our churches and ministries has
limited our effectiveness because we have been guilty at times of focusing on increasing
our numbers to the exclusion of meeting the spiritual needs of people.
His
assessment opened up a whole new world of thinking for me, and frankly most of
it was unpleasant and extremely convicting. I was left wondering how many
Christian leaders (including myself) have been responsible for causing folks to
feel that small contributions to the Kingdom are insignificant or even
pointless. I also wondered how many precious saints of God have given up on
making a difference because they know that they will never be the next Beth
Moore or Joel Osteen.
As I pondered all this, I was struck with
the insight that the people who have affected my life the most meaningfully are
people that most of you have never heard of. The godly men and women who
invested in me were not attempting to change the world with their actions but
ended up altering my life significantly simply by being obedient to God in the
small things.
It hit me that if all of us would commit
to doing some small things for God really well and really often we might just
bring about the change that we have all been longing for. So today, in honor
the sweet, mostly overlooked saints who have impacted my life for the better I
want to encourage you to do something small for the Kingdom of God today. I
have complied a list of seventeen small things you can do that will make a huge
difference in someone’s life.
Befriend a single parent
Read a child a Bible story and give them a
cookie and a hug afterwards
Listen without judging
Make a meal for a shut-in
Forgive someone
Visit an elderly person
Pray for someone who no one else is
praying for
Be kind to someone who clearly doesn’t
deserve it
Become an expert on a book of the Bible
and teach a class
Visit your neighbors
Share
your faith
Volunteer at a school or a homeless
shelter
Commit two hours each week to ministry in
your local church
Buy a homeless person a really nice lunch
Invest in the life of a teenager
Make friends with someone who is different
from you
Repair a relationship
Recently I heard a quote by Martin Luther
King Jr. that resonated in my sprit because of its raw validity:
“Not everybody can be famous, but everybody can be great
because greatness is determined by service... You only need a heart full of
grace and a soul generated by love.”
Mr. King understood that in
God’s estimation and economy it’s the small things that make the
greatest impact. It’s faithful people with hearts full of grace and souls
generated by love, men and women who freely and joyfully do small things in
season and out of season, who make the biggest difference and reap the greatest
harvest.
Do not despise these small beginnings, for the Lord
rejoices to see the work begin~ Zechariah 4:10
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