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Sunday, November 3, 2013

Angel Suits and Helping People~


But God will never forget the needy; the hope of the afflicted will never perish~ Psalm 9:18

My Mother-in- law is an unbelievably talented and creative seamstress. Back in the day, she had a business creating custom wedding gowns and bridesmaid dresses for bridal parties. When she became a Grandmother, she turned her considerable skills to costume making. My kids had some of the cutest, most ingenious dress-up costumes you have ever seen.

Her handiwork included a furry striped tiger suit with a long tail, a knight in shining armor, a ninja, an Indian girl with a feather headdress, and matching his-and-hers private detective outfits with magnifying glasses and trench coats in hot pink and navy blue.

By far the most treasured piece was a dazzling angel costume my Mother-in-law crafted at the request of my then four-year-old daughter Danielle. The costume consisted of a silky white robe made from a soft, sparkly fabric; a golden halo and glittery gold wings completed the outfit.

Danielle dubbed it her “angel suit” and wore it everywhere I would allow. Sometimes she wore it to the grocery store and while we ran errands because I didn’t want to deal with the drama that inevitably ensued anytime I attempted to get her into more appropriate attire. On the rare occasions she allowed me to launder her beloved angel suit, she would stand next to the washing machine anxiously waiting for it so she could put it back on.

And then the unthinkable happened. One evening as I was making dinner, Danielle donned her angel suit and climbed up to the tippy-top of the back of the sofa, held her little arms out as far and as wide as she could, dove up into the air propelling her body towards the (unlit) woodstove.

I dropped what I was doing and sprinted into the living room when I heard the crash and subsequent screams. When I arrived on the scene I found my sweet girl in a sad little heap on the bricks surrounding the woodstove with a nasty gash on her cheek and a badly bruised arm. 

Once I pulled myself together enough to speak calmly I asked her what on earth she had been thinking. She confessed through her tears that she had been certain that the angel costume would allow her to fly. Apparently she believed that all she needed to fly was the right outfit. My sweet girl was heartbroken; her beloved angel suit had tragically failed her.

Unfortunately, magical thinking is not limited to four-year-old girls. Grown-ups can be guilty of it too. Sometimes, as adults, we can believe that if we want something badly enough it will somehow just happen. Christians and non-Christians alike tend to fall into this sort of thinking when it comes to helping people, especially people in need.   

Most Christians passionately want to help those who are hurting or in need. Believers understand that helping the hurting and needy is a command given repeatedly in Scripture (Deuteronomy 15:11, Jeremiah 22:16, Isaiah 58:10, Matthew 6:3, Matthew 25:36-45). Most of us struggle with the how because helping the poor in a wealthy nation is a complex issue.  Many are tempted to leave the helping to the government, but this form of magical thinking is unbiblical and harmful.  Nowhere in Scripture are God’s people called to leave helping people entirely to government agencies. However, God does call His people to roll up their sleeves and work to help those in need.

There are three practical ways that Christians can help the poor and hurting in our culture…

Commit to biblical concepts of justice~ Isaiah 10:3

I could write an entire book on the myriad ways the notion of social justice has been corrupted by the liberal culture. Suffice it to say, biblical social justice is not about everybody having the exact same goods and services. Biblical social justice is about people having opportunities to work and better their situations. Authentic social justice means caring for those who cannot work and providing employment opportunities for those who can (Leviticus 23:22).

Biblical justice is about family helping family and churches filling in the gaps for those without families (1st Timothy 5:8).  Churches that wish to model biblical justice must teach and preach on the value of family and Christian community, the sanctity of work and provide job opportunities and education for those who are in need rather than just handouts that do little to permently change the circumstances of the needy.       

We can live lives that model biblical standards of truth~ Proverbs 6:32, Proverbs 12:24, Proverbs 13:4, Proverbs 13:11, 1st Peter 2:12

We live in a time when people want to separate choices from consequences. The Bible is clear that most poverty stems from behavior that God labels as sin and/or bad choices.  Christians have a spiritual and moral obligation to avoid lifestyle choices that can lead to poverty. These choices would include: sexual immorality (as it leads to single parenting), overspending and debt, laziness and a poor work ethic. Our goal as Christians should be to lead lives that model fidelity, honesty, frugality and hard work.

We must hold government accountable to create programs that work~ Proverbs 10:4, Romans 12:8

As believers who are lucky enough to live in a democracy, it is our duty to use the advantages afforded us to better society. Christians should avoid voting for candidates who champion welfare without responsibility. Welfare without responsibility ensnares people in a system that meets their basic needs without giving them opportunities for advancement. This becomes a peculiar form of oppression that looks and feels helpful but leads to entrenched generational impoverishment. We must be willing to research candidates’ voting records rather than relying on thirty-second sound bytes for information. As believers living in a democracy we also have an obligation to use our voices. Using our voices involves communicating with our elected officials, letting them know in a respectful tone that we expect them to vote for programs that promote responsibility and opportunity.

Helping the poor and hurting is no small task; it takes wisdom, creativity and a commitment to the individual. No government agency, no matter how competently run, can provide the kind of help most people need to move up the socio-economic ladder. This is because each person is unique and every situation requires a fresh solution. As Christians we are called to be involved in the lives of our neighbors and help find solutions to the problems that plague our culture. While it’s true that no one person can help everyone, everyone can help someone.  

  Religion that God our Father accepts as pure and faultless is this: to look after orphans and widows in their distress and to keep oneself from being polluted by the world~ James 1:27

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