“Behold,
the days are coming,” declares the Lord God, “when I will send a famine on the land— not a famine of bread, nor a thirst for
water, but of hearing the words
of the Lord~ Amos 8:11
Spiritual stalls or desert experiences typically begin with a
disturbing sense that God is far away and our prayers are not being heard. The sense
that God is far away and the logical conclusion that He is deliberately
ignoring us predictably leads to a lack of spiritual direction and an
overwhelming sense of confusion. We feel lost and may begin to believe we have
been forgotten or abandoned by God. Every obstacle and disappointment feels
like a spiritual rebuke and becomes a verification of our deepest fears.
Some Christians react proactively. They step-up church
attendance, pray with greater fervency, and work their spiritual tails off in a
valiant effort to make God happy and get Him back on their side. A few become
depressed and despondent. Others become irate and bitter, supposing erroneously
that God has turned on them. Spiritual pity parties and noble attempts to
placate God are natural responses. However, these responses will not fix
anything and may even lead to spiritual regression or rejection of the faith
altogether.
If this describes you, there are a few things you need to
understand. First, you are not the only believer to experience a dry season or
stall. Some of the very best and most committed of God’s people suffered
through a dry season at one time or another. Naomi, David, Elijah, Jonah,
Jeremiah, Esther and even Jesus (Matthew 27:46) went through periods where they
felt God was remote and uninterested in their situation.
No matter how you feel at this
moment, you must understand that God has not stopped loving you, nor is He
punishing you. His silence is not evidence of desertion. He still cares. He has
a plan for you and He has no intention of allowing your pain to go on forever.
Hang on to that. Memorize and meditate on Isaiah 42:3: “A
bruised reed He will not break, and a dimly burning wick, He will not
extinguish; He will faithfully bring forth justice.
A spiritual stall is not the time
for self-pity but it is a good time for some healthy self-examination. God
never moves away from us. He is steady and unchanging. We on the other hand are
prone to wander, sometimes without realizing it. I have learned that when God
feels far away it’s a good time to ask some hard questions:
Am
I making a daily effort to connect with God through prayer and Bible study?
Is
there some area of my life that has become a foothold for the enemy (Ephesians
4:26-28)?
Have
my personal dreams or desires become demands that I make of God?
Am
I harboring resentment in my heart because God has not answered a prayer to my
liking?
If the honest answer
to any of the above questions is “yes” then change direction as rapidly as
possible. Make a determined effort to connect with God, repent of wrong
attitudes, deal with sin and spend some additional time in prayer realigning
your dreams with God’s will. If, on the other hand, none of the above seem to
apply to your situation then you should assume that God is taking you through a
season of refinement and growth.
Because we live in a fallen world, spiritual growth rarely
comes easy and is always incremental. Growth comes as we shed old behaviors and
change the mindsets and attitudes that allowed those wrong behaviors to
flourish. Letting go of old behaviors and attitudes empowers us to reach new
levels of spiritual understanding. The
process is agonizing because our flesh longs to hang on to the old ways of
functioning and looking at life. This painful process is the only way we can be
transformed into the likeness of Jesus.
We can fight growth or we can embrace it. We fight it by
willfully refusing to see the issues in our life that need to be addressed. We
embrace growth by asking God with a sincere heart to show us what exactly needs
to happen in our lives for us to become more like Jesus. It is this place of
humility and submission that allows God to do in us what needs to be done and
frees us up to reestablish our sense of connection with God.
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